What is the point in getting mad or angry? Obviously it is caused by an action to inflict this emotion but really what is the point of being mad? What is the point of having an argument without having a resolution? What is the point of giving the silent treatment without eventually succumbing to communication?

Arguments happen, I know, but I hate when an argument doesn’t have a purpose. At least try to learn from an argument. Learn how to resolve issues with people and learn what makes people tick. Arguments can make relationships stronger in some aspects if you have that underlying communication and you can sit back and listen to one another and realize how the other person is feeling.

When in an argument and the other person is mad and gives the silent treatment for HOURS and then just says forget about it lets move on. What was the point of all that?! I understand there’s a cooling off period that people need. But where’s the communication? If you’re mad tell me you’re mad, tell me what I did, tell me how you’re feeling and let us resolve it and get through this.

If there is no communication and no resolutions to issues then these issues never really go away. You can only stuff so much into a closet before that door spills open. Things pushed inside really never die they are just suppressed and what good does that do?

I just want communication!

-Signed Frustration

Well its been a year since I last visited my blog. A lot of course has happened in that time and much for the better. I definitely believe in the power of prayer and the power in positive thinking. Its been almost a year exactly since my last posts and just a few months later everything turned around. Lets see… where to begin? Last June 2011 right before my 26^th birthday I was offered a job with Hewlett Packard as a French/ English IT support agent. We are contracted by Shell Oil and give IT support to their offices around the world. It was a blessing as the pay is great and from working here I was able to get a car just a month later in July. Then in August I fell in love. I met HIM at my job he is one of my co-workers and it was an instant connection, everything just fell into place so naturally with him almost as if I had known him before. We are still together now 6 months later and have moved into an apartment together. Beautiful apartment right near downtown Royal Oak, perfect location. I am so excited for when it gets warmer out so that we can walk around and enjoy all the amenities of downtown.

Its funny how fast things turn around, just last year I was sleeping on my friend Carmen's couch, no job, no car and really contemplating where my life is going. Now I really don't have a complaint. Ill elaborate on everything further this is just a brief update.